Oh, honey...
Today's topic for the nearly extinct Demystifying Divas and Men's Club is an interesting one. How do you signal your intentions or let your significant other know that you are ready to rumble? And by "rumble" of course, I mean get-it-on in a Marvin Gaye kind of way.As many are aware, there is a new baby in our life. She occupies quite a bit of time and energy, as I'm sure you can understand. Do add another obstacle, my husband works third shift (when normal, non-nocturnal people are sleeping). And, the icing on the cake has been him working even more than normal, thereby decreasing the few opportunities that do exist for man-woman type activities.
So, these days it goes something like this:
Me - "Baby's asleep. Are you awake?"
Him - "Zzzzz zzz zzz. Snort!"
Whereupon I roll back over. It isn't easy for us these days, so we grab whatever small moments we can.
Perhaps someone who doesn't have a brand new baby will have better advice. Check out what Arielle, Mark, and Jamesyboy have to say.
